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        <title>Movie Review: My Kid Could Paint That</title>   
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<p>Little Marla Olmstead is an artist. She paints heart-gripping abstracts and actually manages to sell them. And these abstracts? I like them. Visit her website: <a href="http://www.marlaolmstead.com">www.marlaolmstead.com</a> to see her work and order prints.</p>
<p>The story goes that Marla Olmstead began painting when she was two. She, like many children, became fascinated with the colourful mess of painting that her father, Mark, was making and wanted to do it, too! Being a good dad, he gave her a brush, some paint and a piece of paper. Things progressed as they can and Marla was producing gorgeous works of art.</p>
<p>The 60 Minutes spot, which was included in this documentary, took the mother from being a reluctant bystander to someone in desperate need to prove her own worth. At no time did I think Lauren was ever dishonest and the very idea of her integrity ripped to shreds really tore her heart apart. Mark... well... as the documentary progressed and the controversy broke, I had my doubts about him. Did he paint for Marla Olmstead? No. I don&#39;t believe he ever did. Telling the kid to use more red isn&#39;t painting for them. You can&#39;t direct an abstract. But I think admitting this technicality, admitting that he might tell her to use the spatula instead of a brush or give her ideas on what to paint, would send the media spinning that they had some confession of fraud. I think it&#39;s likely that the dishonesty I sensed when watching him on the documentary was a matter of him just wanting to say, &quot;I helped her by making a few suggestions. So what!&quot; And, yeah, that&#39;s really &quot;so what&quot;.</p>
<p>No artist produces in a vacuum. You can hardly expect a child to produce without influences. Why can&#39;t that influence be her father, instead of that art professor from college or that mentor from SoHo? She&#39;s a child. If she didn&#39;t have any influence and painted in a vacuum, then her abstracts really were nothing but meaningless blotches. I&#39;m not willing to call the paintings meaningless blotches. I can respect her influences and I think it&#39;s wonderful that collectors find their own personal meanings in her artwork. That is what art is about, isn&#39;t it?</p>
<p>What the media seemed to be missing was that Marla Olmstead is not a child prodigy. She&#39;s a regular kid. They miss the importance of this fact so much that when it was highlighted on 60 Minutes that Marla isn&#39;t a child prodigy, it was regarded by the media and community as a bad thing. Regular kids can produce a lot of crap artwork. It&#39;s unrealistic to expect that everything this child would ever create would be worth $20,000. Her mother described the initial success as a fluke and, to some extent, I think there&#39;s a lot of truth to that. In the same vein, I think there&#39;s a lot of truth in any masterpiece being a fluke. Our skills can only take us so far and not everything is going to be the best of the best. We just keep at it, even if we, as professionally striving artists, produce nothing more than mud. Why would we be surprised that a child would occassionally behave like a child? The burden that Marla Olmstead&#39;s parents carry is that they have to keep it fun and make sure their daughter isn&#39;t scarred by the whole otherworldly experience of the art world. Professional adults know the score and we know that we have to continue to work at what we do, regardless of what we feel. Marla Olmstead has no such personal stock in her painting and her parents, especially her mother, have prioritised her happiness and comfort above everything else.</p>
<p>None of that changes that the pieces Marla Olmstead has created are beautiful and that the owners of those pieces have works of art with an origin unlike any other.</p>
<p>I&#39;m glad that the Olmsteads did this documentary.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>Some Justice - Lori Drew indicted in Megan Meier suicide</title>   
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        <p>Hat tip to <a href="http://karnythia.livejournal.com">karnythia</a> for this good news:</p>
<p><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 1.56em">Woman indicted in Missouri MySpace suicide case</span></strong></p>
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<p><span><span style="font-size: small">By LINDA DEUTSCH, <a href="http://ap.org">AP</a> Special Correspondent</span></span></p>
<p><span>LOS ANGELES - A federal grand jury on Thursday indicted a Missouri woman for her alleged role in perpetrating a hoax on the online social network <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1210881701_0" style="CURSOR: hand; BORDER-BOTTOM: #0066cc 1px dashed">MySpace</span> against a 13-year-old neighbor who committed suicide.</span></p>
<p><span>Lori Drew of suburban <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1210881701_1" style="BACKGROUND: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; CURSOR: hand; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none">St. Louis</span> allegedly helped create a false-identity MySpace account to contact Megan Meier, who thought she was chatting with a 16-year-old boy named Josh Evans. Josh didn&#39;t exist.</span></p></blockquote>
<p><span><a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080515/ap_on_hi_te/internet_suicide"><strong>Read the rest of the article.</strong></a></span></p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <p><strong><span style="font-size: x-large; FONT-SIZE: 1.25em">HIV-positive man sentenced 35 years for spitting at officer</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: x-large; FONT-SIZE: 1em">MAY 15, 2008 D</span><span style="font-family: times new roman">ALLAS </span>(<a href="http://ap.org">AP</a>)<span style="font-family: times new roman"> -- </span>An HIV-positive man convicted of spitting into the eye and mouth of a Dallas police officer has been sentenced to 35 years in prison.</p></blockquote></td></tr>
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<p>Because a jury found that Willie Campbell used his saliva as a deadly weapon, the 42-year-old will have to serve half his sentence before becoming eligible for parole. He was sentenced Wednesday.</p>
<p>Campbell was being arrested in May 2006 for public intoxication when he began resisting and kicking inside the patrol car, Dallas police office Dan Waller testified.</p>
<p>Campbell was convicted of harassment of a public servant.</p>
<p>&#160;</p></blockquote>
<p>The <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factsheets/transmission.htm">U.S. Government&#39;s Health and Human Services Center for Disease Control and Prevention</a> gives us the following information about the transmission of HIV:</p>
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<p>HIV is spread by sexual contact with an infected person, by sharing needles and/or syringes (primarily for drug injection) with someone who is infected, or, less commonly (and now very rarely in countries where blood is screened for HIV antibodies), through transfusions of infected blood or blood clotting factors. Babies born to HIV-infected women may become infected before or during birth or through breast-feeding after birth.</p>
<p>In the health care setting, workers have been infected with HIV after being stuck with needles containing HIV-infected blood or, less frequently, after infected blood gets into a worker’s open cut or a mucous membrane (for example, the eyes or inside of the nose). There has been only one instance of patients being infected by a health care worker in the United States; this involved HIV transmission from one infected dentist to six patients. Investigations have been completed involving more than 22,000 patients of 63 HIV-infected physicians, surgeons, and dentists, and no other cases of this type of transmission have been identified in the United States.</p>
<p>Some people fear that HIV might be transmitted in other ways; however, no scientific evidence to support any of these fears has been found. If HIV were being transmitted through other routes (such as through air, water, or insects), the pattern of reported AIDS cases would be much different from what has been observed. For example, if mosquitoes could transmit HIV infection, many more young children and preadolescents would have been diagnosed with AIDS.</p>
<p>All reported cases suggesting new or potentially unknown routes of transmission are thoroughly investigated by state and local health departments with the assistance, guidance, and laboratory support from CDC. <em>No additional routes of transmission have been recorded,</em> despite a national sentinel system designed to detect just such an occurrence.</p></blockquote></td></tr></tbody></table></p><p>Even when brought into contact with the eyes and mouth, saliva is not a host for transmitting the HIV virus. Due to Campbell&#39;s spit not being any deadlier than anyone else&#39;s spit, this is an unjust sentence.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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<p>Tonight was Michael&#39;s band concert at school. As a part of the percussion section, Michael plays bass drum. He owns the required snare and bells. The band played about five songs before the Recorder Ensemble played a number of songs, followed by the Chorus who sang an exhausting seven songs. Maybe I&#39;m biased because my kid was done, but it was really too long of a concert. I enjoyed watching Michael play and he did very well.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>When I picked up the children from school, a brush fire was toasting up 776 in northern Port Charlotte. It had so much smoke that visible was reduced to zero and the sheriff deputies directed traffic in a U-turn at the Sports Complex, making El Jobean and Englewood inaccessible from Port Charlotte. After Michael&#39;s concert, we took a drive by the area and it was reduced to little piles that were burning themselves out. Smoke was still drifting over 776 but it was nowhere near what it was earlier. All these incidents keep happening when I have children with me and can&#39;t take the opportunity to photograph them.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>This was a very wonderful Mother&#39;s Day! I was served breakfast in bed, complete with bloody mary, and then presented with presents! My favourite perfume, a dozen roses, a camera bag (it got returned but it was still wonderful that they thought of that), plus homemade presents from Bailey and Eddie. All the children signed their own names on the card.</p>
<p>Bailey had the idea of baking me a cake so Tom had to purchase all the necessary items and then help her make a chocolate cake and decorate it for me. She really got into giving me a wonderful day (breakfast in bed was her idea) and I owe a lot to both Tom and Bailey.</p>

    
    
    
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        <title>Bailey&#39;s Art Show</title>   
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<p>Today was the reception for the Twenty-Fourth Anual Elementary Art Show at the Charlotte County Visual Arts Center in&#160;beautiful downtown Punta Gorda. Each year, the art teachers from the district&#39;s elementary schools and the Charlotte County Art Guild select one student&#39;s work from each grade in each elementary school. Bailey was the Kindergarten artist for Meadow Park.</p>
<p>The place was crowded with every relative of each student artist&#160;searching the walls for their child&#39;s art and grabbing for complimentary punch and cookies. First, we located Bailey&#39;s exhibit, which she loudly and proudly referred to as a landscape:</p>

    
    
    
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<p>As you can see, it is a landscape done in acrylic. She loves butterflies and purple. After admiring her art, we grabbed our own complimentary punch and cookies. There, we met up with her art teacher, Mr. Alvarez, who had nothing but kind words to say about Bailey.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>My daughter was disappointed that there wasn&#39;t a big announcement or speech given, but had her first taste of what it&#39;s like to be in the art world. And my little star is all for it!</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>New Shoes</title>   
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        <p>I bought new sneakers today. My old sneakers were cheap and they hurt my feet after wearing them for an extended time. I kept them because I so seldom wore sneakers that it didn&#39;t seem to matter. I bought the new pair so I could run again, and that is what I&#39;ll do. They are very comfortable, thank goodness, and they don&#39;t make my feet look big. I wear a [US ladies size] 7-1/2 and certain shoes make my feet look like battleships, so, yeah, it&#39;s an issue for me.</p>
<p>I need a new pair of Timberlands. I used to have a pair of <a href="http://www.timberland.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2343670&amp;cp=1779792.1761172.1845665&amp;parentPage=family">the Euro Hiker</a>, but my daughter&#39;s father threw them away &quot;because they were muddy&quot;. I kid you not! You can&#39;t make that shit up. $100 hiking boots isn&#39;t exactly a purchase you make on the fly so there&#39;s a reason why they haven&#39;t been replaced, yet. I have cheap stuff from Target right now but it doesn&#39;t provide&#160;the necessary support for&#160;serious hikes. It&#39;s basically just&#160;shoes to wear&#160;with jeans that <em>look&#160;</em>like hiking boots.</p>
<p>New boots are always on the shopping list. I&#39;ve worn my black ones with the 4&quot; heel completely out. I need a stylish pair of cowboy boots and another sassy high heel pair.</p>
<p>Notice my use of verb here: need, not want. Need. These are shoes we&#39;re talking about.</p>
<p>I&#39;m still on The Quest for the Perfect Sandal. I had it once but the dog chewed them!</p>
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        <title>Punta Gorda Live Fire Training on FireDailyNews</title>   
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        <title>A short tour of memories</title>   
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<p>I had to go to Fort Myers today for a legal/mediation thing because Bailey&#39;s father is incapable of adult discussion and would rather spend thousands on an attorney than act mature and (maybe) pay off some of those mounting child support arrears with his hard-earned part-time minimum wage Office Maxx money. So we had the obvious discussions that could&#39;ve happened on their own for free if his head had not been lodged up his ass, changed the Agreement a little to compensate for any future incidents of his head/ass lodging, and moved on with our lives.</p>
<p>Anyway, I took some time to walk around downtown amidst the continued [re]construction. It brought back some memories.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>This is where I used to work. Technically, I worked on the other side of this historical building, in a building that was built attached to it for the offices of the Clerk of Courts. As a minutes secretary, I would record the minutes of all Lee County Commissioner meetings, which would take place in this historical building.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>The French Connection is a little restaurant where Tom and I had our first lunch date. It was also our first date that wasn&#39;t scheduled around the convenience of our evening college classes. We&#39;d actually made time for each other. I didn&#39;t eat much because I was nervous. He ate fine. This is a popular spot for downtown employees to get a nice, sit-down lunch in a mid-range price that can offer a bit of quiet.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>I parked in the Main Street Parking Garage &quot;borrowing&quot; Tom&#39;s city parking card and descended down this steep stairwell every morning. This is a couple blocks from the old Courthouse, where I worked, and is almost right across the street from the big antique shop that you can get lost in for hours at a time.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>Tom and I had a lot of dinner dates, and a few lunches,&#160;at Ichibans Sushi Restaurant off of Dean St. They also deliver to the downtown area. As you walk down Dean Street, you&#39;re greeted by this open furnished courtyard. There&#39;s also a a bakery here.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>The statues of Ford, Edison and Firestone engaged in casual conversation are at the entrance of Centennial Park along the Caloosahatchee River. It was around these gentlemen that Tom and I had our commitment discussion. We had scheduled to meet each other here for &quot;a very important talk&quot; and he arrived before me. I remember pulling into a front space and seeing him seated in one of the surrounding benches looking very nervous. Fortunately, our discussion was very different than what he had feared it would be.</p>
<p>The shelter area of this park is where the local drum circle meets every Saturday evening.</p>

    
    
    
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<p>The Harborside Event Center is where Tom went on a lunch break during a wedding expo to find a vendor for my engagement ring... and did. I don&#39;t know if&#160;I&#39;m supposed to know that or not, but I do.</p>
<p>I took more images than merely those that triggered memories, and you can see them in the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/yapidka/sets/72157603864889413/"><strong>Fort Myers, FL flickr set</strong></a>.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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<p>My weekend was rather subdued. Saturday was spent with some spring cleaning and laundry. I shuffled the pictures on the wall and cleared up the long livingroom wall so we can put the projector there. We put new locks on the refridgerator and cabinets to keep Tommy out. So far it&#39;s been working.</p>
<p>This morning, I replaced a cache in Myakkahatchee Creek Nature Park with Gary&#39;s wife, Linda, and shot a few portraits&#160;of C Shift and the Battalion Chief at&#160;CCFEMS Station 12.&#160;The chief gave me a good tour of the Technical Rescue. Station 12 is down the road from San Antonio Catholic Church and it looks like the church is done with their new sanctuary.</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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